Йойока Сома,Сенгу Чжин Чо,Чжан Ивэнь ‒ дети, ставшие всемирно знаменитыми до совершеннолетия. Они виртуозно играют на барабанах в 8, становятся надеждами мира классической музыки в 16, и поступают вуз в 10 лет.
Количество вундеркиндов в странах Азии удивляет. Много одаренных и просто успешных. Во многом это результат целенаправленного воспитания в них:
- Стремления к успеху, упорный труд во имя цели;
- Почитания традиций, уважения к старшим;
- Отсутствия мучительного поиска себя.
Как воспитывают детей в Южной Корее, Таиланде, Китае и Японии
В нашей традиции мы больше внимания уделяем личности ребенка, его чувствам и мечтам. Поддерживаем его собственный выбор, начиная от кружков до вуза. Можно сказать, что наша цель – процесс, а не результат. Азиаты идут другим путем.
Япония. Дети солнца
Всем известно об обожествлении японцами детей до 5 лет. До года их вовсе не спускают с рук. Слинги, называемые омбухимо, появились здесь задолго до мировой популярности. Воспитание детей – главная обязанность мамы, которая может спать с ними вместе до школы. Родитель мягко, беспрестанно направляет, прививая терпеливость и уважение к труду, почитание старших. Игрушек мало, но если малыш ломает что-то, его не ругают. Мама покажет, что она расстраивается, ведь игрушке больно.
На прогулке малыш наблюдает за птицами и жуками, собирает красивые листья или камешки. Родители учат видеть повседневную красоту. Соблюдается режим питания, перекусы недопустимы. В японских колясках даже нет столика, во время прогулки никто не ест. Заложенного запаса обожания хватает надолго.
После 5 лет детей нагружают занятиями и до 15 лет обращаются с ними довольно строго. По достижению пятнадцатилетия к детям проявляют уважение. Воспитание завершено, это взрослые люди.
Южная Корея. Палли-Палли
Детей отдают в детский сад в раннем возрасте, ведь декрет всего 3 месяца. Поведению детей уделяется пристальное внимание: даже карапуз знает и выполняет правила этикета. Он не повышает голос в присутствии старших, почитает бабушек и дедушек, помнить все специальные обращения, и никого не называет на “ты”.
Детям постоянно предлагают что-то попробовать, знакомят с национальной кухней. Ребенок, сидит на руках у мамы за столом, как только научиться сидеть. В результате дети едят все, без слез и капризов. Учитывая, что 80% рациона корейцев это овощи, это прекрасный пример воспитания. Родители Южной Кореи нацеливают на успех с младых ногтей, учеба имеет абсолютную ценность.
Начиная с пяти-шести лет, учатся по 8 часов в день, при этом имеют дополнительные занятия. Отлынивать от учебы нельзя, ни под каким предлогом, даже в каникулярное время. Это жизнь ”палли-палли”(быстро-быстро) с рождения.
Таиланд. Постигая дзен
В воспитании своих детей тайцы демонстрируют поистине буддийское спокойствие. Они не бегут на каждый всхлип, приучая воспринимать синяки и порванные вещи, как урок. Их везде берут с собой, в том числе на работу. Начиная с 4 лет, ребенок помогает родителям, торговать или присматривать за младшими.
Обучение начинается в начальной школе с 3 лет. На протяжении 9 лет их обучают счету, алфавиту и письму и не задают домашнее задание. Большинство мальчиков проводят несколько лет в религиозной школе, где проходят духовную практику под началом буддистских монахов.У родителей Таиланда нет цели сделать детей успешными. Следуя за религией, они выбирают другие мерила счастья, учат быть терпимыми и как все азиаты, ставят семью превыше всего.
Китай. Боевой гимн
В Китае тоже маленький декретный отпуск, и дети с полутора лет ходят в детский сад. В это время их и начинают учить счету и грамоте. К 4 годам маленький китаец осваивает минимум один музыкальный инструмент. Ранее можно было иметь только одного ребенка в семье.
Возможно, это спровоцировало идею сделать единственного – лучшим. На обучение китайцы готовы тратить все свои средства и силы: они учат с ними уроки до ночи, занимаются дополнительными предметами по 3 часа в день, готовятся к соревнованиям в школе как к поступлению в Гарвард.
Выбирают дополнительные предметы родители, ребенок подчиняется их воле. И никакой результат, кроме наилучшего, не может их удовлетворить. Родители считают себя вправе рассчитывать на полное обеспечение в старости, как вознаграждение по воспитанию и обучению.
Так что лучше?
Выделяющиеся аспекты азиатского воспитания имеют свои плюсы и минусы.
- Контроль поведения, строгие нормы. Это очень воспитанные дети, которые тяжело отвоевывают индивидуальность;
- Подчинение родителям и учителям. Результаты обучения впечатляют, вот только креативность дается тяжело;
- Коллектив, класс и группа представляет ценность. Умение быть членом команды, трудится совместно, помогает во взрослой жизни. Травля тоже, обычное дело;
- Нацеленность на успех, жизнестойкость и трудолюбие. Но иногда ради достижения жизненной цели, забывают о самой жизни.
Каждый понимает свою родительскую роль по-своему. Знакомство с различными системами воспитания позволяет в этой роли постоянно совершенствоваться. Учите, воспитывайте, и главное, любите своих детей.
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